Meet Celynna Harnetiaux, LMFT — San Clemente Therapist
Chances are if you’ve found yourself here you’re looking to do more “research” to find the best therapist for you or a loved one.
Hi, I’m Celynna
Founder & Therapist
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Clinical Supervisor & Practice Owner
LMFT License #118714 | EMDR Trained | Gottman Level 1 | California Clinical Supervisor
I created this practice to be a space where therapy feels more human—less clinical, more real, and actually helpful.
I’m a strong believer in therapy—not just as a therapist, but as a client too. I know how hard it can be to open up and trust the person in front of you. That’s why I value helping you find a therapist who feels like the right fit—someone you can be your genuine self with.
In our work together, it’s important to me that you feel safe, supported, and understood. We use honesty, insight, and a little humor to talk through the hard things and help you feel more like yourself again.
I also personally train and support each therapist on our team, so you can expect thoughtful, high-quality care no matter who you work with. I’m also the co-founder of Flourish: The Bloom Room, the wellness space where our San Clemente office is located.
With love,
Celynna Harnetiaux, LMFT #118714Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist | Clinical Supervisor | Practice Owner
San Clemente therapist who loves working with moms navigating anxiety, trauma, ADHD, and relationship issues.
Providing in-person therapy in Orange County and virtual therapy throughout California.
AREAS I OFTEN WORK WITH
Depression. Anxiety. OCD. ADHD. ADD. Trauma .
Depression. Anxiety. OCD. ADHD. ADD. Trauma .
Breakups. Divorce. Family Conflict. Job Dissatisfaction. Communication Issues. Low Self Esteem.
Breakups. Divorce. Family Conflict. Job Dissatisfaction. Communication Issues. Low Self Esteem.
Low motivation. Stress. Brain Fog. Low Self Confidence. Anger Management. Life Transitions. Grief. Loss.
Low motivation. Stress. Brain Fog. Low Self Confidence. Anger Management. Life Transitions. Grief. Loss.
MY
STORY
Why I became a therapist
I was inspired to become a therapist by my deep curiosity for others and their stories. I’ve always been drawn to understanding people — what shaped them, what they carry, what they long for, and what helps them feel truly seen.
While I was in graduate school, I was in an awful car accident that led to major panic attacks. That experience pushed me to pursue EMDR for myself, and it completely changed my life. It opened my eyes to what real trauma healing can feel like — and it inspired me to learn everything I could about treating trauma. I love this work deeply because I’ve lived the difference it can make.
Why I love this work
I love watching people fall back in love — with themselves and with each other. In individual therapy, I get to witness the courage of self‑acceptance and healing. In couples therapy, I’m honored to see partners soften, understand each other again, and find their way back to connection.
Who I’m most drawn to supporting
I love supporting women who feel overwhelmed or anxious, or who are carrying unprocessed trauma that keeps showing up in daily life. As a mom myself, I have a soft spot for working with other mothers — especially those trying to hold it all together. I also enjoy working with women with ADHD who are learning to navigate life with more compassion and structure. And I love working with couples — whether you’re laying the groundwork for a healthy relationship or finding your way back to each other after feeling disconnected.
My therapy style (and how I balance warmth & accountability)
My style is warm, relaxed, and down‑to‑earth. I bring humor and lightness when it’s helpful, and I’m also not afraid to be direct and hold up the mirror when growth calls for it. I want therapy to feel safe, real, and collaborative — a place where you can be fully yourself and still be gently challenged to grow.
Balancing warmth and accountability starts with making sure you feel understood. Once that foundation is there, I do my best to lovingly hold up the mirror when something needs to be named or explored. It’s never about calling you out — it’s about helping you see yourself with honesty and kindness.
Approaches & modalities I use
I draw from EMDR, IFS, and EFT in my work with individuals, and integrate Gottman Method and EFT with couples. My approach is flexible and experiential, guided by what feels most helpful for you.
How we’ll begin
We start where you’re at. Whether you’re in a crisis or simply feeling ready to go deeper, I follow your lead. We begin by getting to know your story, your strengths, and what you’re longing for — then we move forward together.
What therapy with me feels like
Clients often describe me as human first, therapist second. I’m real with them — honest, warm, and not afraid to laugh or sit in the hard stuff together.
My vibe depends on the day — and on you. Some days I’m calm and grounded; other days I’m a little more playful and lighthearted. I try to match the energy of what’s needed in the moment.
What I hope you feel when you sit with me: safe — above all else. Safe to be honest, safe to feel, and safe to not have it all together. My hope is that you feel seen, understood, and supported as you do the brave work of showing up for yourself.
What helps people heal
I believe healing happens when we allow ourselves to be truly seen — even the parts we’ve spent years hiding. When those deeper, darker parts are brought into the light and met with compassion, they’re not so scary anymore. That’s where growth begins.
What I hope you take with you
That you’re not broken. That healing is possible. And that you really can do this — even if it takes time, even if it’s messy.
Celynna Harnetiaux LMFT: Therapy for Women & Couples in San Clemente
For the Woman Who's Holding It All
You're likely the woman holding it all in her head at once — the mental load, the to-do list that never fully clears. You want to do everything and be present for it, and the gap between those two things is where your anxiety lives. Maybe you're confident and capable at work, but quietly falling apart in your relationship or in motherhood. Maybe you no longer have the energy to maintain the perfectionism you've leaned on for so long.
I work with women navigating anxiety, perfectionism, body image, self-esteem, and the deep discomfort of setting boundaries — especially the fear that saying no, or putting yourself first, makes you selfish.
A lot of this work is about learning to see these patterns clearly, often for the first time, and finding a different relationship with your own anger and needs.
I also offer EMDR therapy for women carrying trauma or deeply rooted emotional struggles that talk therapy alone hasn't touched. This is a space to really meet yourself and figure out what you want and need.
More about Celynna.
In the office, I will be your biggest cheerleader and your most honest confidant.
When I’m not in the office, you can find me at home with my husband Steven, our daughter Isla and our goldendoodle Cooper.
My coping skills include listening to true crime podcasts or harry potter audiobooks for the millionth time, gardening, going on coffee walks with friends, eating the delicious food my husband cooks for us (I cannot cook a single thing), reading Isla her favorite books, watching reality tv, bonding with mom friends about how hard being a mom is, or getting competitive with family and friends at game night.
Learn More About Celynna
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Master of Arts In Clinical Psychology, Marriage and Family Therapy
Azusa Pacific University, Orange, CA
Bachelor of Arts in Psychology
Concordia University, Irvine, CA
Università Cattolica del Sacro Cuore, Milan, Italy
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Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist
Isetta Psychotherapy, Hermosa Beach, CA
Marriage and Family Therapist Trainee
Vanguard Counseling Center, Costa Mesa, CA
Marriage and Family Therapist Trainee
Outreach Concern, Santa Ana, CA
Board Certified Autism Technician
The Center for Autism and Related Disorders, LLC. (CARD)
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EMDR, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing, Institute for Creative Mindfulness
Level 1 Training, Gottman Method Couples Therapy
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I draw from a variety of clinical theories when working with my clients. I believe every client deserves a tailored approach to their treatment. A few of these orientations include:
Attachment Theory
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
Emotion Focused Therapy
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Therapy
Family Systems Therapy
Gestalt Therapy
Gottman Method
Guided Therapeutic Imagery
Narrative Therapy
Person- Centered Therapy
Somatic Therapy
Symptoms of ADHD in Women
ADHD in women can often be masked by their ability to "mask" symptoms or adapt in certain situations, leading to the misconception that they don’t have the condition. If you're noticing these symptoms, it may be helpful to speak with a professional to better understand how ADHD may be affecting your life.
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Difficulty staying focused: Women with ADHD may struggle to concentrate on tasks, especially those that are lengthy or require sustained mental effort.
Frequent forgetfulness: Forgetting appointments, important dates, or daily tasks can be common.
Disorganization: Difficulty keeping track of things, managing time, and keeping spaces tidy.
Lack of attention to detail: Making careless mistakes in tasks because of missing important details.
Procrastination: Putting off tasks or feeling overwhelmed by them, leading to last-minute work or avoidance.
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Difficulty waiting for turn: Impulsive speech or actions, such as interrupting conversations.
Making impulsive decisions: Impulse buying, sudden career changes, or rash decisions in relationships.
Emotional outbursts: Strong emotional reactions, including frustration or irritability, without prior warning
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Restlessness: Feeling the need to move constantly or experiencing physical restlessness, such as tapping fingers or bouncing legs.
Difficulty relaxing: Struggling to unwind and feeling agitated even when it's time to relax.
Talkativeness: Excessive talking or speaking out of turn, especially when nervous or excited.
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Chronic lateness: Struggling to keep track of time, leading to constant tardiness or missed deadlines.
Overcommitment: Taking on too many responsibilities and struggling to manage them effectively.
Underestimating time needed: Poor estimation of how long tasks will take, leading to last-minute rushes.
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Low self-esteem: Constantly feeling inadequate or comparing oneself to others, often due to difficulties meeting expectations.
Mood swings: Rapid emotional changes, such as feeling euphoric one moment and then frustrated or upset soon after.
Anxiety or depression: Many women with ADHD also experience higher levels of anxiety or depression, often linked to the challenges of managing ADHD symptoms.
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Struggles with communication: Interrupting others, not always listening, or forgetting important details about relationships.
Feeling misunderstood: A sense of being judged or not understood by others, especially in family or work settings.
Inconsistent performance: Sometimes excelling at tasks, but other times falling short due to poor attention or emotional regulation.
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Overthinking: Women with ADHD may overthink tasks and details to avoid making mistakes or feeling inadequate.
High expectations of self: Trying to meet excessively high standards to compensate for perceived shortcomings.
Burnout: A tendency to overwork or push themselves to the limit in order to manage symptoms, which can lead to emotional and physical exhaustion.
NOT SURE WHERE TO START?
WE OFFER COMPLIMENTARY CONSULTATIONS.
NOT SURE WHERE TO START? WE OFFER COMPLIMENTARY CONSULTATIONS.
San Clemente Therapy in Orange County & Virtual Across California
Starting therapy can feel vulnerable — especially when you're already overwhelmed or not quite sure what kind of support you need.
We make getting started as easy as possible. Our therapists offer a free 15-minute phone consultation so you can ask questions, share what's been going on, and get a feel for whether we're the right fit. Several of our therapists also offer a free 30-minute in-person consultation at our San Clemente office — a chance to sit in the space, meet your therapist face to face, and decide if it feels right before committing to anything.
No pressure, no obligation. The consultation is just a conversation — a low-stakes way to get a feel for things and ask whatever's on your mind. If it's a good fit, great. If not, we'll help point you in the right direction.
You don't have to have it all figured out before reaching out. We'll help guide you to the right person — and if you're not sure which therapist to choose, that's okay too. That's exactly what we're here for.
Questions about Insurance?
Using out of network benefits to help cover the cost of therapy can be complicated, frustrating and honestly quite discouraging-but it doesn’t have to be. To make the process seamless, we use Mentaya, a platform that helps clients get money back on therapy—without the hassle of filing claims themselves.
How does it work?
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Fill out the “Mentaya check your insurance benefits form” and we will confirm your out of network benefits for you.
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Schedule your complimentary consultation with your preferred therapist. During the consultation call we will go over your benefits and an estimated cost of your reimbursement for our services.
Not sure who your preferred therapist is? No problem! Fill out the contact form and let us know a little bit about you and what you are looking for. From there, we’ll guide you in finding the therapist who’s the best fit for your needs.
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That’s it! Begin therapy and after your session:
✔ We submit claims for you—you don’t have to do a thing.
✔ Mentaya handles the reimbursement process with your insurance.
✔ If your insurance offers out-of-network benefits, you’ll receive reimbursement directly.(Note: Mentaya charges a small fee for claim processing, handling any paperwork required, dealing with denials, and calling insurance companies, but only if you receive reimbursement.) It's risk-free: They guarantee claims are successfully submitted, or a full refund of their fees.
"The only way to finally feel peace is to first feel everything else."
-Glennon Doyle, Untamed
In-Person & Virtual Therapy for Women in Orange County
We offer in-person therapy for women in San Clemente at The Bloom Room, serving women throughout Orange County, including Dana Point, San Juan Capistrano, Laguna Niguel, Ladera Ranch, Rancho Mission Viejo, Mission Viejo, and surrounding communities.
We also offer virtual therapy throughout California for women who prefer the flexibility of online sessions.
Therapy in South Orange County & Online Across California
Celynna Harnetiaux, LMFT & Associates serve clients in-person in San Clemente and throughout South Orange County — including Dana Point, San Juan Capistrano, Laguna Niguel, Rancho Mission Viejo, Aliso Viejo, and Mission Viejo. Virtual therapy is available for clients located anywhere in California.
We lead with compassion, honesty, and a little humor — because real support should feel human.
